(by the way, pardon any typos)Im going to be HONEST ... I didnt read your entire blog, but i feel i got the gist of the whole thing ...YES .. I do feel the man should have the majortiy of the power.But, here is the funny party, as much as i think that, in every "real" relationship the woman has the power.Any woman in a relationship where they have no say so, or endures constant verbal abuse, i say is in a relationship that is not good for you. However, every "real" woman knows that she has to make her man feel like a man, and will take a few words or actions that she might not take if she didnt "know" she really had the upper hand in the relationship. Relationships are all about compromise and balance! You have to find someone you dont mind compromising with, that will actually keep you balanced!! TRUST ME! I know what im talkin about!! I have kept many relationships alive and stoped many from causing too much damage. lolVI
I was thinking about this just earlier today because I had to tell my shorty to "stay in her lane and know her place". I think the dominant role of a man really comes into effect when he's a Boss Nigga, if he don't let niggas diss him, then he damn sure not gone take it from any female. Yeah I do feel I should have the more "say so" if I say don't then ya don't. GOT IT!
See the whole thing about you blog honestly states "there are 2 different sides to the story". I'm sure you did something to make this guy feel he didn't have any power what so ever. See I had this girl and she CONSISTENTLY challenge me ALL the time. Maybe me feel like I had no control and sometimes that can be frustrating to a man period. So I came out of character alot with the name calling cause she had an immature posture to her when we dealt with certain situations. Its hard to say there is control when its not even an equivalent balance between the both of you. No one ever wants to swallow pride thats just out the question for any human being. Your right about taking anything from anyone so what makes you think HE WANTS TO DEAL WITH YOU BEING SPOILED and you just getting your way all the time. Like I said I can get deep into this topic but just saying all people aren't the same and if your not willing to give a little then some people will feel disrespected and take a lot. Its all in the matter of the respect you give before you get.
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