Sex vs. Fucking vs. Making Love

1/09/2009 11:18:00 AM Posted In , , , Edit This 7 Comments »
yes! another favorite subject of mine...
i'm about to break down MY definitions of the three...
feel free to disagree, i could care less (lol...jk)...
if you do disagree, let me know your definiton(s)

Sex: just plain, simple intercourse. pumping in and out of your partner to reach an orgasm, or to 'cum'. no real emotions, pretty much just the act itself.

Fucking: (innocent smile) to me, this is where all the raw emotion you feel towards your mate comes out. the hair pulling, ass slapping, nasty talking, raunchy, biting, lip sucking, just plain dirty ass sex!!! take note that the word 'sex' is used in the definition because this is a form of sex! this is when no discussion is needed, when you and your partner can just look at each other and start ripping off clothes. no props needed (unless of course its a sex toy), no real words needed (unless they are filthy), and for this type of sex, i think there's more eye contact...not on a lovey dovey level...but more of a "im gonna fuck the shit out of you until you have multiple orgasms that ripple through your body" level :)

Making Love: awwwww...now this is your sweet, romantic sex that you take time out for to please your mate mentally, physically and emotionally all at once (which often times makes it the best type of orgasm for a woman). Props are used in this type of sex such as candles, bubble baths, massage oils, "smell goods", music, etc, etc. often times, this is the sex that brings a woman to tears (sometimes even a guy hehehe) but yeah, this is the type of sex that lets you know you're actually in a serious relationship bc most guys, or even females, dont go all out like this for just anybody.


well, those are MY definitions...what are yours???

and out of all three, i must say, that with my man...i prefer the fucking AND making love. either one can be done at will because there is passion and love that NEVER EVER leaves our relationship.

which of the three do you prefer??

7 comments:

Peggy M. said...

pretty much the same definitions...

making love and fucking is IT... with the right person of course. haha.

Mr.Getz Bizzy said...

Fucking, lately I think I've been doing a lot of love making but it comes those times like the make-up sex, result in straight fucking... I like the rush though.

-Sex... is dry & boring usually happens on flings/1 night stands and females I hope to never see again in life.

**trucee writer** said...

Peggy,
good point! how do you know if its the right person though? what signs show that?

(for those that dont know, cuz i do lol)

Anonymous said...

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Vegas International said...

SEX is routine ...

FUCKING is exciting ...

LOVE MAKING is for HER!!!

SEX is more often, you fuck when you can, and make love when you have to!!

myssmodelstar said...

making love and fucking. the only two I want in my life with my significant other.

miss-b. said...

my definitions are basically the same. i believe that "sex" and "fucking" can be with anyone but it takes a special person to "make love" with.

what about the "fucking" and the "making love" incorporated though? a little of both. i don't have a title for it but i have had it. the whole candle light dinner with the oil rub down mixed in with the hardcore air to wall to floor type of bang. lol. any names?

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